NO

Can you handle No?

There are dreams and aspirations that we are seeking in life to make us feel great but what if you couldn’t attain them. What if life told you no? How would you receive that commentary? Would you accept it? Would you wallow in self pity?

Over the years that has happened to me on numerous occasions. I wanted a certain job and BOOM, I didn’t get it. NO! I desired to relocate and start fresh in a new city. NO! I wanted to be with a certain someone and enjoy wedded bliss. NO! For every NO in my life, I learned a lesson. I learned how to be patient. I learned more about myself. I learned contentment. Having to face NO in situations is really not that bad folks(trust me I had to grow up and learn that). When you are able to step back and understand why you’re facing a NO, life will be so much richer. No isn’t a bad thing, it could be helping you avoid heartache or just allowing you to grow up just a little bit more.

Much love,

Beautiful Black Cat

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